Do you ever wonder where you would be right now if you had made different choices?
“Where would I be if I married that other person?”
“Where would I be if I had made a different career move?”
“Where would I be if I had/hadn’t gone to college?”
Or, in my case, “Where would I be if I hadn’t made the decision to seek my biological family?”
I said that I was “done” with the adoption thing. I also said obliquely that I would be weaning myself away from the whole issue by ruminating.
Well, I’m ruminating. Continue reading