Do you ever wonder?

Do you ever wonder where you would be right now if you had made different choices?

“Where would I be if I married that other person?”

“Where would I be if I had made a different career move?”

“Where would I be if I had/hadn’t gone to college?”

Or, in my case, “Where would I be if I hadn’t made the decision to seek my biological family?”

I said that I was “done” with the adoption thing. I also said obliquely that I would be weaning myself away from the whole issue by ruminating.

Well, I’m ruminating. Continue reading